Saturday, April 20, 2013

The so called funda of "Life" : Negative angle



As I walk in the road called " life "


I realize .. Family friends are in some way extrapolation of our life , created by us based on needs and passions..

In reality , everyone is alone ....

When you were born you were alone and when you die you will die alone ...

The path between life and death is a strike where we need to fight and fight to keep living ..

Your so called parents cannot guide you all the time and  its rather unfair to rely on them ..

Your so called spouse have enough pressures in life to actually pamper and love you..

Your so called sibling is fighting his or her own battle and some where forgets that you both came from the same " place "..

Your so called friends are busy making a nest of their own ...

Your children depend on you and by the time you can depend on them , they are long gone ..

So in reality ... You are basically alone and from start to finish its yours and your battle only ..

People come and go in your life but in the end it just matters how much you , just "YOU" lived your life ..

Your laughs your sorrows your worries and anxieties are just your own ..No one actually cares a damn or can even understand you ! Even if they understand you , what can they do after all to help you ?

You don't ove the world anything ..
You have to just fight till the end to live or rather survice  and if you are lucky and the circumstances made you a good person , congrats ! you have a place in heaven , else the "hell " is all yours !Well dont worry , be it heaven or hell , there will be loads of people with you to party  !   Or as per hindu religion , be a good human so that you can get a better life in your next "life" !Well , so dont loose hope ! there is this "next life " to look forward to , in case you messed up this one !!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Very beautiful and realistic blog,the feeling of loneliness is as intense and is a Maya just like love. Just like how death is a reality if birth is,so real is loneliness when at a moment you don't think of love and vice versa.pls continue writing..way to go manjutty..;-)

Kripa Rangachari said...

Yes I agree - its a realiztic blog Manju!..... very much to the point!.... and yes we are stiving a lot just to get the name of a 'Good Human' and thats it :) ....

Good ma .. keep blogging!!!

Cheers,
Kripa Rangachari.

Anil Kumar Nanda said...

u r becoming pessimistic towards this angle of life .. let me put it in a different way for you .

To bring you to this earth even before you saw the world , your mother had taken the pain to make you a part of this beautiful earth.

when you were born , u were alone , without identity .. no one knew u . Your parents shared all their affection and love , adored you and made u a part of themselves.

all care , attention, affection that your parents could have had towards the rest of the world , was share with you , for you.

Your siblings fought for you with your friends who turned hostile in games

your friends were standing near you when you were getting solid scolding from your teacher /lectures

When we come to earth we have no aim , no meaning .. All these people who come and become part of your life give your life a meaning , a destination a reason to Live

Njoy the moment and be in it

manjusha said...

thanks all.. i agree life is indeed beautiful and that is why i made this attempt to blog and gave the title as "negative angle", bz its up to us how we want to look at life , if we think +ve it will be +ve else negative !its simple

Anonymous said...

So well written and true.. But there's a wee bit more negativity to it than required - nipra